The comment left on Mom Cafe by ‘Geumjogi‘s mom’ that aroused Dr. Oh Eun-young’s unprecedented anger is a hot topic.

On Channel A‘s ‘Childcare These Days - My Golden Child’ that aired on the 27th, the story of Geumjogi who strongly rejects her mother was revealed. Dr. Oh Eun-young also caused an unprecedented situation by angrily telling Geumjogi’s mom, “Don‘t raise the child.”.

On the broadcast, Geumjogi’s mom, who is in her 20s, showed sadistic behavior by forcibly teaching her 4-year-old child Korean and verbally abusing her, and Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “This is gaslighting. If the mother doesn‘t realize this, then don’t raise the child. She even warned me, “If I get out of here and find out that mom hasn‘t changed, I’ll report you,” and gave me a strong solution.

Immediately after the broadcast, Geum-jok‘s mother opened up on a mom cafe by saying, “When I moved into my mother-in-law’s house, I was pregnant with my second child and had moved all the boxes. My mother-in-law was holding our older child and ordering me to organize the things I had moved back into the house. She was the one who told me to erase everything when I was pregnant with my first child because I shouldn‘t have children without going to college.”

She continued to say about her mother-in-law, “She harassed me by saying that I shouldn’t hide my belongings when I cleaned everything and washed the blankets, and she harassed me by saying that I shouldn‘t hide them when they were mine, and if I didn’t organize them, she would harass me. When the baby was 6 months old, you fed her protein milk in a bottle, and the baby got constipated, so I fed her prune milk, and she argued with me, asking if it was okay for her to give that to him. My mother-in-law said that the baby wouldn’t fall down if she didn’t wear the seatbelt in the stroller, so she unbuckled the seatbelt herself, but the baby ended up falling and had to go to the emergency room.” She asked, “If you were me, would you say ‘Yes, yes’ to your mother-in-law?”

In the meantime, Geum-jok’s mother confessed, “She always says what she says is right, forces you to do things that are wrong, nags you until you do, and when you pretend not to hear, she claps her hands and makes you look over there and then says things that don’t make sense. What would you do?” She then claimed, “(Now) I got her some medicine and she’s taking it, so she doesn’t get angry and she’s doing a good job raising her.”

In the meantime, Geum-jok’s mother said, “I raised her well by empathizing with her more than anyone since she was little, so don’t worry. ”I think I did that to my child because even my feelings aren‘t important,“ she said. ”I will work hard and show you a changed image. I don’t think you should judge or criticize just by watching what I see on TV,“ she added.

She also said, ”I decided to appear on the show to fix my problem behavior and raise my child better. Only my problem behavior was shown on the show, but since they had to show everything within a given amount of time, the context was cut out,“ she said. ”It‘s only been two days since I took the medicine, but if I had known it would be like this, I would have taken the medicine before appearing on the show. I really want to raise my child well,“ she lamented.

Photo = Channel A ‘Parenting These Days - My Precious Child’

Reporter Lee Seul-bi, Donga.com misty82@donga.com