Comedian Park Sung-kwang‘s wife Lee Sol-yi confessed to being battling cancer while mentioning the malicious comments she received after appearing on a show.

On the morning of the 2nd, Lee Sol-yi wrote on her SNS, “I think it’s time to talk about my situation,” and said, “After appearing on Same Bed, Different Dreams, I‘ve been trying not to look at the comments on articles.”

She added, “Then one day, I received a threatening note from the company saying, ’Die,‘ and I asked them to find the culprit, but there was no way.”

Lee Sol-yi said, “After quitting my job, I was naturally preparing for a child, but I was diagnosed with cancer five months later. Because it’s a female cancer, I couldn‘t have children, and I felt so sorry to my parents and in-laws because I felt guilty that I couldn’t take care of my health.”

She continued, “I‘m still taking medication and receiving treatment. “There is still a long way to go until I am fully recovered, so I am still undergoing cancer treatment,” she said, talking about her current situation.

Lee So-ri said, “I wish the world would become a little more affectionate and kind. Still, I will do better from the beginning..so please misunderstand a little less.”


●Below is the full text of Lee Sol’s SNS post

I think it’s time to talk about my situation.
After appearing on Same Bed, Different Dreams,
I’ve been trying not to look at the comments on the articles..

But when I saw the comments by chance after a long time,
my hands started shaking and tears came to my eyes again.

I guess I still can’t get used to these things even after 5 years.
It feels so unfair, and I’m so sad.

“What did I do wrong in my life?”

Every time I want to be happy and live well,
why do I have to face these trials?
I feel so frustrated..

I live my life checking and reflecting on myself every day…
I’m just an ordinary person who lives fiercely chasing hope.

I went to work diligently for almost a year after the broadcast.

Then one day, I received a threatening note from the company saying, ”Die.“
I asked them to find the culprit, but there was no way.

At the time, the entire society was under a lot of stress due to COVID-19,
and random crimes were continuing,
so I decided to quit my job at the recommendation of my husband and parents.

I didn‘t quit my job because I wanted to rely on my husband’s financial power.

I really loved my job, I was passionate about it,
and my colleagues know that best.

After quitting my job, I was naturally preparing for a child,
but I was diagnosed with cancer 5 months later.

Because of the nature of female cancer, I couldn‘t have children,
and I felt so guilty that I couldn’t take care of my health that I couldn‘t help but feel sorry for my parents and in-laws. I’m sorry.

Because the cancer was not good,
I was very frustrated when I didn‘t even know if I would live another year or three years.

I underwent surgery and cytotoxic chemotherapy for six months,
I had to be careful when going out, I couldn’t eat raw food,
I vomited every day, lost weight, my skin was ruined, my hair fell out...
I went in and out of the emergency room and endured a really hard time.

I‘m still taking medication and receiving treatment.

That’s why I couldn‘t have children,
and that situation still continues..

Every time I have a checkup, I ask, ”Will I be able to have children?“
But the doctor says, ”Mom’s health comes first.“

There‘s still a lot of time left until I’m completely cured,
so I‘m still receiving cancer treatment.

I didn’t want to bring this up, but...
I was so heartbroken by the fact that I was constantly portrayed as a ‘extravagant woman’, ‘a woman who doesn‘t have children’, ‘a woman who uses her husband like an ATM’ amidst the continuous sensational articles and distorted views.

It’s okay if this article doesn‘t get attention.
But I wanted to talk about what kind of person I am..

I am a person who loves, laughs a lot, meets precious people, and wants to live without excessive greed, sharing my heart with those around me.

However, sometimes, no, often,
I tremble with anxiety and pray with tears every night,
I am afraid of even the slightest pain,
I feel pain that doesn’t exist when memories of treatment come back to me,
and I live each day feeling like my life is being extended regularly based on the survival rate.

That‘s why I desperately want to stay healthy,
and the happiness of this moment It became important.

After the treatment, I tried really hard to
go back to my old self, both internally and externally.

I wanted to share the things that kept me going during those difficult times,
and that’s why I‘m doing this market now.

But someone said my hard work was
strong..

How can everyone be like me?
But I want to live my life focusing on pretty and good things..

That’s why I always live with a positive mind and chasing hope.

There may be a truth hidden in everything that we don‘t know about. Everyone lives fiercely in their own way.

My simple happiness is going to a cafe on a sunny day.

I’m just an ordinary woman in her 30s who likes taking pictures, traveling, pretty things, and chatting.

Is it because my fierceness wasn‘t visible that
I’m being criticized so indiscriminately?

I‘ve never bought a single luxury item before I turned 30,
and I’ve always lived diligently saving money,,
and even now, I don‘t want to be a burden to my husband, so I work hard on invisible things to help the family.

I live with regret over the reality that the reason we can’t have the perfect family we dreamed of together is because of me.

I‘m scared.

No matter how much I chase after hope,
hope is what I see sometimes...
This keeps happening Stress
I can’t ignore it any longer.

I wish the world would be a little more affectionate and kind..

Still.. I‘ll do better from now on..!
So please misunderstand a little less

Choi Yun-na, Donga.com reporter yyynnn@donga.com

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